Modesty is for Men Also

By: Carl B Garner

 
It is obvious from both what we see and what we read that more teaching is needed on the subject of modesty. For years we have correctly taught that the behavior and apparel of a Christian woman should be such that it shows her desire to be “a woman professing godliness” (1 Timothy 2:10). This principle is obvious to all who honestly look to the Bible for guidance in their daily living.

 

Most of this teaching has been directed toward women because it has been recognized that immodesty on the part of the female will more readily incite lust in men. However, while this is probably true, it does not eliminate the need for men to be aware of their need for dressing and behaving in a way harmonious with their profession of being a Christian. Consider the following points:
It has become increasingly common to read of women writing and speaking of their being attracted by the male body. An issue of Esquire magazine quotes several women’s preferences and the lusts they feel when seeing a scantily clad male body.

 

Those who argue that women are not sexually attracted by the male body have difficulty explaining the new wave of “male strippers” who dance in female-joints.

 

Homosexuals, heretofore less outspoken, now openly admit they are affected and tempted by males who dress in immodest and tight, scanty clothing. See Galatians 5:19-21; 1 Corinthians 6:9-11; Ephesians 5:3-11.

 

The principle stated in Luke 17:1-2; 1 Corinthians 6:18-20; 8:9-13; 10:23, 31-33; Philippians 1:9-10; Colossians 3:1-5 and Titus 2:6-8 all show that we should show proper concern for the effect of our behavior on others. Those who cause others to sin are guilty of sin themselves (1 Corinthians 8:12; Matthew 18:7).
If you are a Christian, whether male or female, let us all strive to live in such a way we lead others to Christ and not from Him.