It is obvious from both what we see and what we read that more teaching is
needed on the subject of modesty. For years we have correctly taught that
the behavior and apparel of a Christian woman should be such that it shows
her desire to be
“a woman professing godliness” (
1 Timothy
2:10). This principle is obvious to all who honestly look to the Bible
for guidance in their daily living.
Most of this teaching has been directed toward women because it has been
recognized that immodesty on the part of the female will more readily incite
lust in men. However, while this is probably true, it does not eliminate the
need for men to be aware of their need for dressing and behaving in a
way harmonious with their profession of being a Christian. Consider the
following points:
It has become increasingly common to read of women writing and speaking
of their being attracted by the male body. An issue of
Esquire
magazine quotes several women’s preferences and the lusts they feel when
seeing a scantily clad male body.
Those who argue that women are not sexually attracted by the male body
have difficulty explaining the new wave of “male strippers” who dance in
female-joints.
Homosexuals, heretofore less outspoken, now openly admit they are
affected and tempted by males who dress in immodest and tight, scanty
clothing. See
Galatians 5:19-21; 1 Corinthians 6:9-11; Ephesians
5:3-11.
The principle stated in Luke 17:1-2; 1 Corinthians 6:18-20; 8:9-13;
10:23, 31-33; Philippians 1:9-10; Colossians 3:1-5 and Titus
2:6-8 all show that we should show proper concern for the effect of
our behavior on others. Those who cause others to sin are guilty of sin
themselves (1 Corinthians 8:12; Matthew 18:7).
If you are a Christian, whether male or female, let us all strive to live in
such a way we lead others to Christ and not from Him.